|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|
|
 |
Overview |
|
| |
In
their capacity as managers and team leaders, engineers
must speak to employees, must deliver presentations and
must conduct meetings. All of these - from a short, simple
conversation to a long technical presentation - require
good speaking skills. Thinking of professional speaking
as more like conversations, and less like classroom lectures
improves the likelihood of information exchange so central
to engineering work.
Before you think about the words you choose, look at your
nonverbal behavior. Good eye contact, for example, conveys
interest, warmth, and credibility. Giving your listener
enough "space" - by not standing too close - keeps the
person at ease and allows him or her to concentrate on
what you are saying. (see
body language list).
Your way of speaking is also important. A monotone speaker
can put an audience to sleep regardless of how exciting
the message is, and even makes it difficult for listeners
to pick out the important points. Emphasize your points
to let listeners know what is important. Speak clearly
(don't mumble or speak too quickly), so you can be understood.
Choose your words carefully. If your thoughts are in order
before you start talking, you will not confuse your listeners
or leave them wondering what your point was. Also, be
sure you are not preaching, even if you are disciplining
an employee. You will be more effective in these situations
if you are also courteous and considerate.
Here are some other tips to improve your speaking skills:
 |
Don't
state opinions as facts. First, you might not
be right, and second you will alienate your listeners.
You might even cause an argument. Identify your
opinions as such with phrases such as "it seems
to me" or "I believe." |
 |
Use
words that convey your message. When talking,
be sure the words you choose are clear and straightforward.
Fancy phrases and long or strange words might be
impressive, but they do not necessarily lead to
clear communication. |
 |
Repeat
if necessary, but stop talking once you've made
your point. Many speakers repeat themselves
unnecessarily, long after their listeners have caught
on. While illustrating your point with an example
clarifies an idea, needless repetition causes your
listeners' minds to wander. |
 |
Don't
discuss personal problems. A professional never
burdens other people with personal complaints in
a public or group forum. |
 |
Don't
do all the talking. If necessary, direct the
conversation in a way that encourages other people
to contribute their ideas. This offers you an opportunity
to learn. |
|
 |
| |
|
|
|
|
|