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  Preparing for Negotiation
 
  Negotiations are not like sports. In sports, both sides want the same thing - to win - so there is always a winner and a loser. The goal of negotiating is to see both sides win - that everyone gets some of the things they want, but not necessarily everything. By identifying what's important to both sides, you can usually get the things you most want, and concede to the other side their top priorities. Most negotiations progress through a number of stages: preparation; proposal; bargaining; and closing.

If you want your negotiations to go smoothly, you need a plan that includes your goals and your strategies for achieving them. This requires careful preparation, as you go through some important steps:

1. Identify your objectives - Make a list and rank them, deciding which ones you are willing to give up. Be careful to distinguish between wants - things you'd really like to have - and needs, which are those things you cannot do without.

2. Prepare yourself - assemble data to support your case, develop logical arguments that support it, and sit in on other negotiations to see how it's done.

3. Assess the other side - If possible, talk to people who know them; evaluate their position; do any applicable research that might counter their position; try to identify their objectives; and analyze their strengths and weaknesses.

4. Choose a strategy - Assess the nature of the conflict. Which negotiating style would be most appropriate? Develop an overall policy to achieve your objectives.

5. Create the right atmosphere - Choose a location agreeable to both parties, and make sure that it is comfortable (for example, not too hot or cold), satisfies both sides' requirements (adequate for audio-visual equipment, e.g.), and has adequate bathroom facilities. Use strategic seating; putting the parties across from one another is a confrontational arrangement, while mixing up the parties can have the opposite effect.

BATNA stands for Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. The acronym comes out of the research on negotiation conducted by the Harvard Negotiation Project. Before you begin a negotiation, know what your options are. Can you walk away from the deal? What other choices do you have? What are the pros and cons of each choice? Don't stop here. Also consider the BATNA of the other party.