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  Dos and Don'ts
  Do your best to build a good working relationship with your co-workers. Let the small things pass, know when to distance yourself and be prepared to compromise. Focus on the task. If all your avoidance efforts failed and you do find yourself in a work related conflict, here are some dos and don'ts for handling and resolving the conflict.

Do:
 
Be positive and patient
Focus on the problem, not the other person-
Keep an open mind; be flexible
Seek the other person's ideas and point of view
Explore all alternatives for resolving the conflict
Try to understand the other person's perceptions
End on a positive note
  Don't:
 
Prejudge people
Assume you have all the facts
Focus on the person's attitude, personality or motives
Ignore others' ideas and viewpoints
Overlook the possibility of differing perceptions
Be defensive
Go into the discussion unprepared
Focus on meeting practical needs at the expense of personal needs